Most Indian girls live a deeply conflicting love life. They want to date a certain kind of guy but do not want to marry him. And they want to marry a certain kind of guy but do not want to date him.
They are attracted to bad boys and immature guys, but when it comes to marriage, they suddenly want a responsible, stable, and mature man. These are two completely opposite types, and this conflict is the root cause of why most Indian girls are unhappy in their marriages.
The reason 90% of girls do not marry their boyfriends is simple — deep down, they already know that their boyfriend cannot become a good husband. He cannot provide a stable and comfortable life. So they enjoy the relationship for fun and excitement, and when the time for marriage comes, they start searching for a completely different kind of man.
The solution is straightforward. Either date the kind of guy you would want to marry, or be willing to marry the kind of guy you date. Both need to be the same person. If there is a gap between who you date and who you marry, you will never be truly happy in either situation.
But at the end of the day, it is entirely their own doing. Nobody forced them to choose their boyfriend, and nobody forced them to choose their husband. Both were their own decisions. So if they are unhappy in their marriage or in their relationship, they cannot blame anyone else.
Poor choices lead to poor outcomes. And the sooner girls realize this and start making better, more thoughtful decisions, the better their lives will be.